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Questions to Ask Before Buying a Kitten

A short, direct list of the questions worth asking every breeder — and what a good answer to each one actually sounds like.

By Anzhela Kavalevich · Solette Cattery, Barcelona 8 min read
Prospective owner talking with a breeder about a kitten

Knowing what to ask is often the hardest part of buying a kitten responsibly, especially for first-time owners. Here's the exact list we'd want a prospective family to ask us — and what a genuinely good answer looks like for each one.

Health and Genetics

Pedigree and Documentation

Kitten paperwork and pedigree documents laid out
Recommended image: pedigree and health documentation for a kitten. Alt text: "Pedigree and health documentation for a British Shorthair kitten"

Raising and Socialization

What's Included

Ongoing Support

Questions About the Kitten Itself

A Note on How Questions Are Received

Beyond the specific answers, pay attention to how a breeder responds to being asked all of this. Genuine breeders welcome thorough questions because they're proud of their program and want informed, prepared owners. Defensiveness, irritation, or vague deflection in response to reasonable questions is itself valuable information.

Questions Worth Asking Yourself, Too

Beyond questions for the breeder, it's worth honestly answering a few for yourself before committing: Are you prepared for a 12 to 20-year commitment? Does your schedule and living situation genuinely suit a cat's needs, including the grooming demands if you're considering a Longhair? Have you budgeted realistically for ongoing food, litter, and veterinary costs, not just the initial adoption price? A responsible breeder will often ask you similar questions in return, which is a good sign rather than an intrusion — it means they care where their kittens end up.

Following Up After Your Initial Conversation

It's entirely reasonable to take time to think over the answers you receive, compare them against other breeders, and follow up with additional questions before making a decision. A breeder who pressures you toward an immediate commitment, rather than welcoming a thoughtful decision-making process, is worth approaching with extra caution regardless of how well the initial conversation otherwise went.

Questions Specific to Golden and Silver Colors

If you're specifically interested in golden or silver coloring, it's worth adding a few color-specific questions: "How many generations of documented golden or silver ancestry does this kitten have?" and "What eye color is typical for this specific bloodline?" A breeder specializing in these colors, as we do, should answer confidently and specifically rather than giving vague, generic responses about coat color in general.

Putting It All Together

You don't need to ask every single question on this list word for word — the goal is understanding the underlying concerns each one addresses: verified health, genuine documentation, proper socialization, honest transparency, and ongoing accountability. A breeder who addresses these themes thoroughly, even without you reciting a formal checklist, is demonstrating exactly the kind of responsible practice worth looking for.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is it rude to ask a breeder for health documentation?

Not at all — it's a completely standard and expected part of buying a pedigreed kitten responsibly. Reputable breeders anticipate and welcome these requests.

What if a breeder can't answer some of these questions?

It depends on which questions. Gaps in health testing or documentation are serious concerns, while a breeder simply needing a moment to look up specific dates or details is normal and not itself a red flag.

Should I ask these questions over the phone, email, or in person?

Whichever is most comfortable, though written communication (email or messaging) has the advantage of creating a documented record of what was discussed and promised.

How many breeders should I compare before deciding?

There's no fixed number, but speaking with at least two or three gives useful context for what reasonable, thorough answers actually sound like, especially for first-time buyers.

Is it okay to ask about price and payment terms directly?

Yes, clear, upfront questions about total cost, deposit requirements, and payment schedule are entirely reasonable and something a transparent breeder will answer plainly.

Should I ask about a kitten's diet before deciding to buy?

Yes, knowing exactly what the kitten currently eats helps you prepare an appropriate transition plan and avoid digestive upset in the first week, so it's a genuinely practical question to ask before pickup.

What's a reasonable amount of time to expect between first contact and taking a kitten home?

This varies, but a thoughtful process — including a waiting list for upcoming litters, time to ask questions, and the kitten reaching an appropriate age to leave — often spans weeks to months rather than being immediate.

Can I ask to see photos or videos of the kitten's parents together?

Yes, this is a reasonable request that helps verify the parentage claims being made and gives you a fuller picture of the genetics and appearance your kitten is likely to inherit as an adult.

Is it appropriate to ask a breeder about their own veterinarian?

Yes, knowing which veterinary practice a breeder works with, and being able to confirm that relationship, adds another layer of verification to their health testing and general care claims.

Can I ask why a particular litter was planned, in terms of health or color goals?

Yes, and a thoughtful breeder will usually have a clear answer, whether it relates to refining a specific color line, reinforcing good temperament, or continuing a health-tested bloodline.

Is it okay to bring a friend or family member to meet a kitten?

Yes, most breeders welcome this, and a second perspective can be genuinely helpful when making an important, long-term decision like choosing a kitten.

Can I ask a breeder for a video call if I can't visit in person?

Yes, many breeders, including us, are happy to arrange video calls to show the kittens, their environment, and answer questions live when an in-person visit isn't practical, especially for international buyers.

What should I do if two breeders give me conflicting information?

Ask each to clarify or provide documentation supporting their claim — genuine, verifiable facts like health test results or registry status should hold up to this kind of scrutiny without contradiction.

Further Reading & Sources

Ask us anything on this list — we'd rather answer too many questions than too few.

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